SEX ..... just the mere mention of this word alone is enough to grab attention and make heads turn... Sometimes i feel that the greatest genius in the world is not Einstein or Newton.. or watever Nobel Prize winner.. but the very person who thought of using this word to describe " The Art of Making Love" :P .. i mean, wat other word has more impact than these three letters ?? other than of coz maybe vulgarity and itz direct relative.. the "F" word !
anyway, i was suddenly thinking of the topic.. "wat do women think of men who watch PORNOGRAPHY ?" do they realli think that men who watch pornography are perverts ? i mean, CMON! letz face it.. according to the latest statistics, out of every 10 men, 9 men have at least watch pornography before.. and the oni man who dun watch it.. is a gay.. and he watch a different type of porn.. gay porn... (of coz the statistics thing is pure bullshit!) Besides, men love action movies.. and porno movies are like action movies.. alot of actions, just no storylines and no wardrobes..datz all.. :P
Perverts are men who cannot control themselves, resulting in molests and rapes..and are pathetic enough to watch CHILD PORN.... They are the real scum of the earth..
Anyway, i just feel that it is sooo common, and oh ok, i admit it.. i do watch porn before.. just not the regular type.. or addicted to it.. but i mean.. try thinking from a man's point of view.. other than looking at naked women.. we also learn "new moves" and ways to make our own sex lives more enjoyable wah.. (datz how i learn of key words like "missionary", "doggie style"..etc)
Women always complain that Singapore men are boring lovers and are lousy in bed.. so i guess porn can teach men new stuff so as to spice up their own sex lives..
And again.. to all the women out there... ever thought abt why so many men visit prostitutes ? one reason is becoz prostitutes satisfy the men sexually, and they always have new tricks that make the men beg for more.. If a men has an active and exciting sex life, do u think they will wanna spend the money on prostitutes and risk getting AIDS ?
But den, of coz there are exceptions, and maybe there are more perverts then i think there are.. hmmm....
but as long as both parties treat sex with an open mind, and are more adventurous.. den i think it realli helps in maintaining a relationship..

Just a point to note : i do not encourage CASUAL SEX and neither am i against it.. the main idea is just to hope that everyone is more open abt sex and not treat it lightly.. datz all.....

Today was another boring day at work..... coming in to work.. log in, tok to customers.. taking in the same routine calls.. have lunch.. back to taking calls.. log out... go back home...... and tomorrow will be the same old routine again...... haiz... cant believe out of my whole life, i am gonna spent soo much time just to earn some money to survive.....


Life sucks.. but i guess i just have to look on the brighter side of life.. :P

Motto of today : I only have one live.. either i rot my life away, or i spent these times doing the things i wanna do, and live the life that i always dream of...

actualli, when there is a guy who is v gd to u, and cares alot abt u, wont u have the slightest idea that this guy.. might like u ?? i mean, i tot that girls are supposed to be more sensitive and emotional... esp abt these sort of things... i mean, speaking from a guy's point of view.. if i oni treat that girl as a normal friend, i will treat her exactly the same way that i would treat my other guy friends..except being more gentlemanly and less vulgarities, i guess! But if i feel something for a girl.. i will tok to her more nicely, show more concern and be 100% more attentive than usual.. to be totally honest, i tot these little little hints might get the other party to at least think, on whether do i realli like her or not... correct ?
And if a girl feels that the guy likes her, but she doesnt like him.. dont u think she shld at least drop some hints.. to at least let him know that friendship is the oni possibility.. at least in the near future.. and not keep on misleading him.. till the point where he would be hurt ? i mean, cmon, guys have feelings too, u know...we just dun show it so openly..... datz all...
Itz just that i hope that to ALL the girls out there... i know it is v shiok when u have the guy's attention .. but i just hope that there is a limit to everything.. dun mislead a guy, cos in the end, it will oni hurt both parties... know wat i mean ?

Was watching "troy" last nite with a friend, and man, although it was almost 3 hours long, it dint seem v draggy.. unlike LOTR I ... quite a gd show.. got alot of action, romance, love and of coz, there is Brad Pitt and his naked butt.. haha. :P
anyway, last nite was v enjoyable.. haha, got some funny and memorable incidents that happened.. er.. i shant elaborate more... but overall it was good..... v good.....

Quote of the Day (from the movie "Troy") : Honour the Gods, Make love to your woman, and Fight for your country.. ( haha, i dint knw the europeans were already so open-minded!!)

Was reading the newpaper today.. and i came across this article which indicated that an American, Nicholas Berg was decapitated by terrorists in Iraq sometime back.. and that the whole video was broadcast over the Internet...... omg..... i remember once i "accidentally" dl a video, which was abt a Russian soldier being beheaded the same way, by the now-defunct Taliban regime... u know........ FUCK THOSE STUPID BASTARDS!
i have absolutely no idea why these mindless fuckers luv to kill so much... i mean, in the past, terrorists kill or threaten for at least a reason, (like freeing their leader, or fighting for freedom.. etc) but now it seems, these pple are killing for the sake of killing..... i realli wanna know what is in their mind, when they hold down a completely helpless person, slowly cutting off his throat... what were they thinking... sorri, guess these pple have no mind on their own, so itz useless to ask anyway.. but i think the worst was when they kept shouting in their language " GOD IS GREAT" while killing their victims..... shit , they are insulting their own religion and they have no idea what the muslim religion is abt.....or are they worshipping Satan instead ? i always hear pple misusing these words, and saying things like " itz time for Jihad " which means "holy war" ......these pathetic pple are the worst scums in this world, and i truly hope that they will get their just desserts.. these mother fuckers......i mean, do they know the meaning of PEACE ?? huh ??!?! shit, they think they are heros when they perform these brutal acts, and their excuses, is always in the name of God ... omg, if there is realli a God, i think he will destroy these pathetic bastards instead, for all the inhumane acts they have done...... haiz, when i think of these things, sometimes i rather have "armageddon" upon us and change the whole world again....... cos it realli sucks, when we humans, who are assumed to be the most intelligent beings in this world... are killing one another ..... for fun...

I am a free thinker, but i realli like to think that there is a God above, and that he does something, or at least create a miracle to stop these brutalities from happening.. cos if he is oni looking at us from above and doing nothing... den i guess u are no better than the rest...... sorri.... pls pardon me for my language..... itz just that i feel so appalling when i think of these kind of things...... haiz



A man is most blessed when everyone ard him are happy and healthy, but it kills him mentally, when something bad happens to them ...

Just came back from another "eating mission" with my friends.. we went to Hotel Negara and had the international buffet there.. the cost is quite ok, $35 for 2 person.. so, itz oni ard $17.50 for each person.. hmm.. quite a bargain, i guess... as i am sure after today, the restaurant must be having a severe shortage of prawns !! haha, although i still feel that the mission at JB was still the best ever!!
Hmm... was tokin to a friend last nite, and oni den did i knw she was leaving for australia this friday..... omg, time passes realli fast...... and now she is gonna leave soon.... well, i will miss ya! :) hope u will enjoy urself there and remember to take care!


Quote of the day (from my friend) : When someone u luv, hurt u.. itz his fault.. but if the same person hurt u again.. den itz ur fault, cos u gave him the chance to hurt u..
hmmm...... v thought-provoking, dun u think ? :)

Yesterday was celebrating my friend's BIG BIRD DAY at plaza sing. ... and oh man, i realli enjoyed catching up with them..... so much crap to tok abt.. but i cant say the same for the food at Cartel though.. there is quantity.. but simply NO QUALITY! nonetheless, the atmosphere was gd.. and most importantly , the company i had was gd.. lucky i forgot my appointment with my friends (we were supposed to meet at Queensway S.C)
if not i wont even be there.. oops.. :P
actualli, although there have been some unhappy things that happened lately.. but at least for now, things are getting better.. i think! i am getting used to my job, i can handle my studies better now.. and my colleagues have been v gd and friendly..... just hope things remain stable... haha, oh well, and i finally found a pirated gameshop! but damn, all the games cant work, and Norton Anti-virus suddenly became Anti-spam ?!?!?! wat the &^$%$#!!!!

SMS of the day : When things go wrong, when sadness fills your heart, when tears flow in your eyes, remember 3 things : 1) YOU ARE CUTE 2) I AM CUTE (yeah rite!) 3) THEY ARE ALL UGLY!!!

Just came back from JB with my friends..... v good friends actualli... the 7 of us have known each other for years.. this is the 11th year..... and we even took a neoprint together...... seven guys in their mid-twenties still doing this stuff.. haha, but i will definitely keep this neoprint as my precioussss... and when i grow old, i can look back at it.. and tell my grandchildren.. that this neoprint is taken by 6 of my v good friends.. and may our friendship stay for eternity...
Btw.. i must admit it is a sin to eat in JB (if u know where to eat though).. we went to this place called Taman Raya.. or Jln Kris or something.. where there are chinese seafood hawker stalls there.. and we ordered soo much food.. and the sugar-cane drink.. omg.. itz meant for giants!! i mean, the glass is so big and huge, itz as tall as my big head! Each of us only paid SGD11.. and we ate stuff like sting-ray, oyster omelette, kang-kong, giant prawns, and sotong... omg, it is a sin, just to think abt it.. but nonetheless, even if i die becoz of too much oily food..i will still die a happy ghost and not a hungry ghost...

Motto of the Day : Eat Till We Drop.. Then Stand Up and Eat Again!

Just finished watching the finale of "America's Next Top Model" and man, adrianne realli deserved to win! She is cool, sexy, beautiful and man, she got the right attitude! I remembered there was one contestant called nicole, and she always call her bf, and was so crazy abt him, that she is willing to be kicked out because of him.. and adrianne commented, " which man is more important than being in this competition" ... u know, i totally agree...... if in the 1st place u wanna join this competition, den u should just focus on doing the best (itz once in a lifetime u know!) .. itz all abt priority..... if ur bf realli loves u so much, all the more he shld encourage u.. (which nicole's bf did'nt, btw..), but omg, i realli cant believe all that bitching that was going on and on and on... phew
Anyway, love is all abt giving, NOT possession.. i dun understand why some pple can be so selfish.. if u love someone, u would want dat person to always stay happy and let her go, if, unfortunately, she found someone better.. i know itz hard, and itz not easy... but in the end, even if u have her all to urself, there will always be something u can never get.. her heart (the most important thing oso) ... why persist, i wonder... sorry for being so long-winded, just that the other day i saw this article where this guy actualli stabbed his ex-gf (i think) six times.. in the very workplace where she worked (happened in Bt Panjang Shopping Ctr).. she died.. and she was oni 16...... haiz
Today, i guess..... was another bad day..

Just got the news that one of my best friend's mum got cancer..... when i saw the sms from him.. i immediately felt for him...... oh god..... i am a free-thinker, but i realli hope that if there is a God, then i hope that he will see this msg, and create a miracle for his mum..... good people don't deserve these kind of things in life...... they deserve something better... all of us will pray for his mum to get better..
it was a sad day..